Hmmmm

OK, first off, a question; how is this any different from email?
Secondly, why do you feel like a teenager with your boss? you should feel like her mother from the sounds of it...OK, i get what you mean though feeling like a mortified teenager while your mom/boss pigs out.
Um, how would i deal with that...hmmmm...ummm....ahhhh
gee, i don't know...is she overweight? maybe she has a bad relationship with food. Or maybe she grew up poor with not enough food. Or maybe it's not about the food, but that's it's free...
Are the other people kind of surprised too?
I was thinking of a joke, like addressing the other people with "I guess Mary didn't get a chance to have a breakfast today!" or "I guess Mary agrees with me, this stuff is delicious! I'm sorry I can't express it as well as she can".
Maybe do one of those talking out loud to yourself things, so she can hear, and say "OK, Mai, this time you're going to take is slow...remember last time when you gorged yourself and felt like a stuffed pig? Not this time!!! Mary, help me with this! Be a good example for me!!"
Or you could get all serious and say in a low tone "Mary, I don't want to freak you out, but my cousin once had to get ten stitches in her mouth when she put a knife into it when eating. I use to put knives into my mouth, too, before that happened".
Huh, none of them very viable options, i know.
I think it's just one of those things in life, a (hot) cross (bun) you have to bear. I guess it would make me want to NOT eat, but you are there to test it out.
BTW, hope her name isn't really Mary and I apologize to all Mary's out there who might be offended I used their name to describe someone with this issue. Not that it's a bad thing...
Why am I apologizing? I'm supposed to be bitching!
Must get back to work....caving a tiny bunny. Isn't that sweet?
I really am a gemini....